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Ok jokes aside, add to that:

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Its normal in the sense that it is typical. If you are unexperienced and/or anxious it can affect the time you last. When you are comfortable with the your partner, not stressed, healthy and experienced you should be able to last for very long time. In my opinion the thing that affects most is the mood you are in.

I would not know, but it really depends on how people treat the vote. Personally it represents disapproval (not disagreement).