Using a tunnel is definitely the way to go and very easy to set up. Please don’t share over https if you don’t know what you are doing

I can answer this one pretty definitely as I have been on both hormones. Being in a horny spiral as a man has the same pull as being in an emotional spiral as a woman. It’s hard to get out of until you fuck/interact with someone that makes you feel better. Men are just as emotional as women, but only with fucking, fighting, fleeing, and feeding (the parts of the brain that testosterone stimulates). Women are just as emotional as men, but with all of the other emotions that men don’t usually have to deal with

This is a cis-white dude that has never felt any real discrimination in his life