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Cake day: June 17th, 2023

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  • I think very few if any would say we hate NK or those that live there. Although the US does seem to be sliding into a strict authoritarian state we generally want other countries to allow free movement (inside and outside their borders) and free speech (no consequences for speaking ill of government). If you like simple living and not much distraction from social or digital media I’m happy for you.


  • Dad never even hinted at any kind of advice like wearing condoms or abstaining or “being careful” with any of my girlfriends. I guess the fact I was not very attractive and was sort of religiously brought up seemed to keep me out of any accidental pregnancies or STDs. As a parent now it’s not easy to talk about these things but we don’t shame each other for being naked or use “baby terms” when it comes to reproductive organs.






  • Think about how you’d react if he was 18, 19, or 20. If you’re more okay with it when he’s older then you’re thinking 17 is “too soon”. Well, that’s not really your call. Physically, 17 is a safe age for sex. Mentally, make sure he’s aware of the consequences of sex. Emotionally, he’s basically on his own. You can’t teach him to deal with the emotions he’s feeling now or might feel after sex (assuming he hasn’t done it already).

    This is the stage in life where you need to support your son, not control him.