When the code finally works, the computer issues are fixed, the kitchen is cleaned.

I really hope you can open up to someone about your home life. Someone you can trust. I don’t know what faith you have, but maybe the pastor, preacher etc. could be a person of trust? I know that in my home country they are obligated to keep your confessions private under any circumstances. Or maybe there’s an institution for victims of domestic violence nearby? I know this may sound frightning at first or you might feel ashamed for one reason or another. But I hope you can take this step to get some outside help for your situation. You deserve to be safe. You deserve to be happy.

I personally don’t see the value. If I’d want to talk about stuff, I don’t want my username associated with, maybe

• the internet is not the right place to have this discussion or
• I wouldn’t want it associated to my account by any means, so would most likely create a burner account.

I also wonder if it wouldn’t make moderation harder?