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Cake day: June 12th, 2023

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  • It’s mostly because “that’s how the ancestors did it”. In many parts of Europe, the system for last names used to be (and still is in some places) something like “son of [father’s name]”, which wouldn’t really make sense to put first in speech. In other cases, things like place names or occupations were used to identify someone, so something like “George the Smith”, which would only slowly be formalized into family names and become “George Smith” in the middle ages. The word order was just kept as it was. On the other hand, in China, family names were introduced by imperial decree about 2000 years ago, to facilitate census data and bureaucracy. For that purpose, it makes sense to put them first, as that’s how you do it when organizing them into a table. That Chinese practice would have spread to other parts of Asia etc.




  • In that particular case, I think the message format might have been an issue. I personally always find audio messages very inconvenient, as I’m not going to annoy everyone around me by listening to them in public. So I’d plan to listen to them later, but I might have forgotten about the message entirely by the time I got home. By the next time I remember the message, it could be an inconvenient timing again etc. A proper text message is almost always preferable.





  • I can’t help you with finding those votes, but as someone who’s gotten similar bans 3 times now: You’ve probably just downvoted a couple posts by a mod and they got annoyed. That’s how it’s been every time for me, a low single-digit number of downvotes was enough to be a “serial downvoter”. Ultimately, I’d ask myself whether it’s even worth it to appeal those bans. Do you really want to participate in a community run by mods who do that kind of thing?