My ex would bitch at me and start shit, then accuse me of gaslighting her if i tried to de-escalate or defend myself.

Good riddance. I hate when people use the term for trivial shit now.

It happened. But ok if you say so.

“nnnnn-ghinks”

I believe you. When my ex got a laptop, literally every folder was onedrive. Even system folders were mapped to onedrive it was ridiculous. I had to backup all her stuff and manually fix the fuckery in the registry editor before i could uninstall onedrive.

I had braces in my early 20s. Its not a big deal. Just be ready for it to feel like youve been hit in the face with a train.