If the feeling is mutual, I think there is no point in staying married. Maybe you can keep in touch, if you want to. Distance can sometimes change a relationship for the better. No need to cut her out of your life completely if you don’t want to
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UnfortunateShort@lemmy.worldto Programmer Humor@programming.dev•The future of tech interviewsEnglish6·13 days agoI just did and got it actually
UnfortunateShort@lemmy.worldto Ask Lemmy@lemmy.world•If you had to eliminated by a Pokemon move, what would it be?English13·21 days agoPound.
UnfortunateShort@lemmy.worldto Selfhosted@lemmy.world•Self hosting Signal serverEnglish23·26 days agoYou cannot selfhost Signal, because the regular app won’t connect to your server. You could probably bridge it to Matrix I guess? I’m pretty sure it’s a thing, but I see little benefit here, besides your phone not connecting to Signal and your messages being collected in one app, if you so desire.
UnfortunateShort@lemmy.worldto Ask Lemmy@lemmy.world•On a scale of 0 to 10, how good are you at technology?English14·27 days agoThere is not one single technology to be good or bad at. You can be an Android development ace, a Windows gamer and a Linux user all at the same time, and naturally you will struggle if you switch to Windows dev and Linux gamer.
Being tech savy really just means that you know and recognize tons of patterns that pop up everywhere (e.g. drag-n-drop, config files in certain places with overrides in other places etc.)
UnfortunateShort@lemmy.worldto Programmer Humor@programming.dev•What do you call your production branch?English11·1 month agoJoe who?
Have you tried setting up rclone for cloud access and then using restic with -r “rclone:my_aws:path/to/backup”?
UnfortunateShort@lemmy.worldto Programmer Humor@programming.dev•average c++ devEnglish293·2 months agoI used to love C++ until I learned Rust. Now I think it is obnoxious, because even if you write modern C++, without raw pointers, casting and the like, you will be constantly questioning whether you do stuff right. The spec is just way too complicated at this point and it can only get worse, unless they choose to break backwards compatibility and throw out the pre C++11 bullshit
UnfortunateShort@lemmy.worldto Selfhosted@lemmy.world•Public vs. Private synched photo managementEnglish1·2 months agoFor any kind of storage, cloud or not, I think rclone should provide whatever you need for free (not entirely shure about metadata). You will likely want at least one script tho, since the commands can get quite long, depending on configuration.
I don’t know whether this fits your needs better, but “Ente” and “Proton” offer E2E encrypted cloud storage with the option to share parts of it via link or accounts, as well as clients that automatically sync stuff for you (Android only for Ente I think)
UnfortunateShort@lemmy.worldto Ask Lemmy@lemmy.world•Why are most religious people so easy to manipulate? (serious)English4·2 months agoEvangelical in the sense of protestant christians or in the sense of that crazy cult that’s going on over in the Americas? Maybe it’s just the news giving me the wrong idea, but I really don’t recognise my religion just one ocean away.
I am a scepticist, but (or rather because) I grew up with a progressive church that allows and encourages critical thinking. Very tame stances overall, no overly aggressive rethoric, laughing and coloring you hair very much allowed. Then you cross the pond and hear fuming people talk about filthy infidels and holy wars like wth…
I think these people are not necessarily easy to manipulate, but indoctrinated to hell and back
UnfortunateShort@lemmy.worldto Ask Lemmy@lemmy.world•Considering that AI is "hallucinating", and able to make up information that seems true based on what the model was trained on, what is the difference between current AI and the human brain?English8·2 months agoLies are deliberate, hallucinations are mistakes. Talking about lying AIs implies that they have something akin to free will or an intrinsic motivation, which they simply do not have. They are an emotionless tool designed to give good answers. It is comparable to claiming the mechanism for generating speech in the human brain comes up with lies, which it obviously doesn’t, it just articulates them.
I’m not saying humans can’t hullacinate, I am saying it is not the same as lying and that AIs can’t lie.
UnfortunateShort@lemmy.worldto Ask Lemmy@lemmy.world•Considering that AI is "hallucinating", and able to make up information that seems true based on what the model was trained on, what is the difference between current AI and the human brain?English582·2 months agoI can’t tell if you are serious, but as someone with a master in CS and some basic experience in neuroscience, I want to clarify a two things:
- AIs can’t lie, because they neither know nor understand things
- AIs are not like us and you can’t make them like us yet, because we don’t even fully understand how we work
UnfortunateShort@lemmy.worldto Ask Lemmy@lemmy.world•Why do people switch from chrome to Brave browser and not to Firefox?English32·2 months agoBecause Brave is by default what Firefox is when you install Librewolf instead - and more. And you can refuse to see that and be wrong about it, I don’t care. I use Librewolf because I want to, I still think it’s not the better browser.
I was bowm in Novemy :3
UnfortunateShort@lemmy.worldto Ask Lemmy@lemmy.world•What is the difference between a neoclassical liberal, a social liberal, and a progressive social democrat?English1·3 months agoI think in Germany, ‘sozialliberal’ usually refers to being liberal in general, except for being pro social regulations / markets. So I guess it means everything and nothing 🤷
UnfortunateShort@lemmy.worldto Ask Lemmy@lemmy.world•Do pet tarantulas grow to "love" or become "fond" of you?English101·3 months agoI love how these fuckers have a Wikipedia article that’s like: “Yup. Their nickname sums it up. These are fucking motherfuckers that do nothing but look pretty. Do not touch them, do not keep them, they are just mean fuckers.” And they stress that ‘fucker’ part like 4 times.
UnfortunateShort@lemmy.worldto Ask Lemmy@lemmy.world•Do insects have personalities? Do invertebrates in general exhibit "personalities"?English5·3 months agoI really can’t stand spiders except for jumping spiders. They have caused me to become a lot less hostile towards spiders in general
UnfortunateShort@lemmy.worldto Ask Lemmy@lemmy.world•How does multi-player support fit into theStop Killing Games InitiativeEnglish2·3 months agoGames and multiplayer have existed before any of this mess, so it is evidently not necessary. If a publisher thinks otherwise, they can’t continue to make multiplayer games. Sucks to be them I guess, I’m sure others will pick up the ball
UnfortunateShort@lemmy.worldto Ask Lemmy@lemmy.world•How does multi-player support fit into theStop Killing Games InitiativeEnglish5·3 months agoMultiple approaches have been suggested - from local multiplayer (which can potentially be extended to the internet) over releasing server binaries or source code, to providing documentation that allows to recreate a server.
Tbf, often there either is no proper one, or you don’t know where to find it. Or there is just tons to unpack, because one thing leads to another and suddenly you have to read like 10.
To give you an example: I just wanted to create a new btrfs software RAID and dissolve my old one, but without loosing the data or redundancy in the process. To do so, I had to create a new partition table, of course not before using tools to find the right device, add a LUKS2 partition, find its UUID, unlock that partition, add a btrfs partition, mount that partition, copy all data over, then generate a keyfile for auto-unlock, add that to the LUKS, add the according crypttab line, remove a drive from the former raid, not before running a balance of course, then also create LUKS on that, find the UUID again, open that as well, add the keyfile again, add another crypttab line, adding the mapper to the btrfs partition, running a balance that creates a RAID 10, adding an fstab entry for auto-mount, runnning dracut and set up btrfs maintenance.
Even just describing the process is a chore. Imagine trying to learn every stept, one by one, from the manuals.
Edit: Some fixes and steps I skipped added. In case anyone is wondering what the heck I’m doing: I am moving from a RAID 1 with 2 disks to an encrypted RAID 10 with eventually 4