

That’s totally fine! You can still ask people out just the same as anyone else. Love finds those who don’t explicitly seek it out. Form friendships, and love is a natural extension of that.
That goes for any sexual orientation, too. Being nice to people goes a long way.
The way to my heart is kindness, gardening, and shortalls (because God, people look so cute in them).
Do you use a bed protector between the sheets and mattress? Humans sweat a lot at night, naturally. Bed protectors protect against the 7+ fluids that can come out of you, lol. It might be worth a shot.