I think you might be talking to the wrong people. I know many people in happy marriages, male and female.
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One of my friends was a rural police officer, which I didn’t know. Dude is super friendly and queer. Unfortunately he had a lot of terribly sad stories of AD&D and DUIs. He finally called it quits when one woman rode up an industrial garage door to impress her friend and got lethally caught in it. Found her friend holding her legs to try and save her. Too many terrible things happened to nice but terribly misguided (or drunk) people.
I think that job hurt his heart.
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Ask Lemmy@lemmy.world•"Flushable wipes"; "dishwasher-safe"; "odourless" - What are some other blatant lies that companies get away with?
10·1 month agoFlavored dish soap is kinda wild in general. Yes, I want the things I eat and drink off of to all taste vaguely of chemical lemons.
The default should be plain soaps and plain dish detergent. Some are so potent that the scent sticks to the dishes even after washing, and unfortunately, the food too. Especially that dawn spray soap.
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Ask Lemmy@lemmy.world•What are some gross or disgusting facts about the human body that people aren't aware of?
1·1 month agoProbably. I know everyone starts off as girls before some continue on as guys. Which is why guys have nipples and that line on their scrotum and taint.
Not so sure about the earlier developments though.
Depends. I’m fine with most stuff, but I certainly want warnings if a video is titled “revolving door fail” but the content warning is “NSFL” (dude got his fingers caught and visibly cut off)
Not having a NSFL tag would be a major disservice to the viewer.
As long as it’s legal, live and let live, imo. Life is too short.
Though I also encourage people to not rely on it as their only outlet for being horny. It creates unrealistic expectations around nudity and sex, which is irritating in certain scenarios.
It’s extremely apparent when someone thinks nude beaches are for sex because they’ve watched a shitload of porn and start acting out. Everyone else is talking with friends, reading books, or getting some sun.
If you want to do voyeurism, go to your local kink events, there’s plenty of them through FetLife.
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Ask Lemmy@lemmy.world•Why is bicycle riding so controversial in America?
1·2 months agoRegulations do vary from state to state too. Some states allow you to treat stop signs as yields if there are no cars present.
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Ask Lemmy@lemmy.world•What is too high for a pending authorization charge for a gasoline purchase?
1·2 months agoCan confirm. I’ve seen $145 charges at Costco gas. Big truck country, where gas is cheap…
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Ask Lemmy@lemmy.world•What are some gross or disgusting facts about the human body that people aren't aware of?
7·2 months agoOne hole for everything! A pseudo-cloaca :3
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Ask Lemmy@lemmy.world•What do y'all think about Halo coming to PlayStation?
2·3 months agoConsole exclusives always seemed stupid to me. That said, I always preferred Xbox controller layouts.
After 3/ODST, Halo was effectively over once Bungie sold off the IP. I’ve heard the new version is using AI in some capacity. If I really wanna play it, I’ll just play MCC on PC.
2 and 3 are where the story really got exciting. It’s fun to play the games in strictly chronological order, where you play all of Reach and 1, 2 for a bit, switch ODST, finish 2, then play 3. Extremely satisfying.
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Ask Lemmy@lemmy.world•Uncircumcised penis owners, did you ever wish you were circumcised?
11·3 months agoI’ve seen and talked to some people that have, and they actually did get it back to a natural-looking, uncircumcised penis. But it literally took years of training with a weighted device clamped to the skin that remained. Two years of basically round-the-cock stretching. Suffice to say it’s something that should be one’s own choice, not a parent’s decision unless there’s some significant health issue that needs immediate fixing.
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Ask Lemmy@lemmy.world•Americans, what do typically have for breakfast?
5·3 months agoUnflavored shredded wheat cereal with frozen berries, toast or vegetarian sausage, and quality tea.
In summer, I’ll sometimes swap the tea for a smoothie if it’s been hot.
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Ask Lemmy@lemmy.world•Uncircumcised penis owners, did you ever wish you were circumcised?
7·3 months agoI definitely would leave it up to them. It is a very long recovery to regrow that skin if they have regrets or issues later in life.
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Ask Lemmy@lemmy.world•In Switzerland the Money is being updated and the population gets to help and chose. Here are the 6 finalists, which comcept would you chose?
2·3 months agoConcept G for skiing and swimming, or concept H because that’s super cool to have rocks and minerals on currency.
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Ask Lemmy@lemmy.world•More for folks from walkable environments, my question is: would you walk an hour and 15 minutes to go to say, the library?
2·4 months agoDefinitely would bike or bus something over 30m
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Ask Lemmy@lemmy.world•Does anyone actually take into account "IP Rating"/"Water Resistance" when they buy phones?
1·4 months agoNope, my current phone isn’t even water resistant. It loses resistance over time anyways, so IDC.
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Ask Lemmy@lemmy.world•The stigma of being a feminine male has left me broken, dysfunctional, and afraid to leave home. How can I get past my fear?
9·4 months agoWell, if there’s one thing that should drive you, it should be getting some form of education or vocational training and forging your own path forward, ideally someplace chill. There’s many places on the west coast where being effeminate is totally normal, and people are totally fine with that. I like it when people get to really be themselves, and I LOVE men who wear cute things. We need more cute apparel!
I also think therapy would genuinely help you. If you put in your location, hit “all filters” and you can choose what type of therapy you want, and there’s also a separate section for Bisexual/Lesbian/LGBTQ+ (even if you are straight, filtering by these might get you a really thoughtful counselor.)
https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/therapists/oh/columbus
Just to make this post too long, I was in a similar boat coming out years ago. Not quite the same, I think girly stuff is cute, but I also don’t go out of my way to wear it. Anyways, I was really stuck in a rut over sexuality, conflicts with religion, and my confusion with cute women, but also cute men. My life really turned around when I started talking to close friends about what I was going through.
I went deep, no holds barred, we talked hard about everything and life. At the same time, I called my doctor’s office and got a referral for a therapist, who was excellent. That man really helped turn my life around, and recommended the site I linked above. Honestly, his help was all I needed. I’ve met someone I truly love, and everything all worked out in the end.
The hardest part for me was calling that clinic and telling them that I needed help, and why I needed help. It was hard, but life slowly got easier after that.
The razers are really bad this year and I recommend avoiding them completely. Here’s an exhaustive list that just came out six days ago: https://youtu.be/KhfqhCxqpQ8
Generally, I recommend a desktop if he isn’t moving it around that much. They’re upgradable usually, which saves money over rebuying a laptop with new screens, keyboards, power supplies, etc each time.
But if he is moving it around, the Asus TUF laptops, particularly last years models, are pretty decent on the whole. Budget, but solid gaming laptops. Decent specs when I bought mine a few years ago.

Mid 20s! It all worked out.