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  • Really depends on your home, but a few that I had…

    • If you have wood floors, a bulk pack of sticky felt pads for furniture you buy to not scratch them up

    • Robot vacuum (or vac/mop)

    • Basic power tools

    • Electric lawn mower/weed whacker that uses the SAME BATTERIES as your power tools

    • if you’re a nerd and wanna do “smart home” stuff, don’t buy smart lights, buy smart switches

    • a touchless live-wire tester

    • A label maker

    • Big pack of furnace filters

    • an accordion folder thingy for the billions of documents you’ll wanna keep (receipts/user manuals for appliances), property tax assessments, etc

    • Bulk pack of lightbulbs with the same colour temperature (it looks idiotic if all your lights are different hues)

    • nail-in picture frame hangers, wall anchors (they’re YOUR walls now!)

    • keycode deadbolt

    • most microwaves have a way to enable “silent mode”, do that

    • water sensors (smart if possible), put under your hot water tank and dishwasher

    • double check your laundry room drain actually has a slope to it, and isn’t the damn high point in the room

    • if you’re not living with a romantic partner… I’d suggest not blowing your budget decorating… Let them have the space to feel like they can make the space thiers as well, and accept that means some of your decorations are going to be retired



  • Edit: I’d originally written a response that matched your tone, and realized after a smoke that it’s needlessly confrontational and snarky, so I’m going to take another shot.

    I don’t mean to imply that it’s imperative that you don’t make your own screws.

    If you wanna make your own screws, go ahead, but I still don’t think you should 3D print them. There are existing tools to do that which are cheap, simple, and will produce vastly superior screws. Also cheaper. A tap and die set is your answer there.

    Also, if you want to leverage your 3D printer, use it for what it is actually good at which is creating complex bespoke geometries. Design your components with interlocking geometries such that you don’t NEED screws.

    Screws exist as the convenient solution to a manufacturing problem, being that it’s often easier to create complex geometries by producing a set of simpler geometries and then fastening them together. The underlying problem goes away if you can print arbitrarily complex components.

    If you think you gotta 3D print screws, you’re probably not even actually leveraging the new technology to its fullest extent anyways, you’re still designing with an old paradigm despite having new options.


  • I think you’ve completely missed the point.

    We produce screws at industrial quantities, out of various materials, lengths, heads, pitches, etc etc etc.

    The industrial scaling of this production results in screws being really really inexpensive. So inexpensive that depending on quantity you’re looking at, the finished screws are no more expensive to you than the raw materials.

    Yeah you can print a screw. The question is why?. It will be more expensive per unit, more labour intensive, of worse quality, and will do wear and tear to equipment you own. It’s a lose/lose/lose/lose.

    The one exception is that it is some mystical bespoke screw. And even then, it is likely that there are traditional methods which would better achieve that end (buy some screws that you can develop a process to modify in order to meet your needs)

    It’s a good analogy. Yes you CAN 3D print a screw. It doesn’t mean it’s appropriate or even economical to include them in your products. Yes you CAN vibe code something. It doesn’t mean it’s appropriate or even economical to include them in your products.



  • If you’re just running a few services, and will only ever be running a few services, I agree with you.

    The additional burden of starting with proxmox (which is really just debian) is minimal and sets you up for the inevitable deluge of additional services you’ll end up wanting to run in a way that’s extensible and trivially snapshotable.

    I was pretty bullish on “I don’t need a hypervisor” for a long time. I regret not jumping all-in on hypervisors earlier, regardless of the services I plan to run. Is the physical MACHINEs purpose to run services and be headless? Hypervisor. That is my conclusion as for what is the least work overall. I am very lazy.




  • It really depends on where you wanna draw the line on content you remove.

    Reddit and Lemmy both organize posts by vote. Users and the zietgiest are already doing the heavy organizational load.

    I administered a top 100 subreddit. Millions of subs.

    Honestly, what HAD to be removed was minimal. People can disagree. People can lie. People can call eachother bad names. They get ratio’d. I think it’s good for bystanders to see how unpopular some views are. I think the brilliant and nuanced rebuttals to bigotry are beautiful.

    Dealing with power tripping mods was much more labour intensive than the moderation itself. Spam and stalking/doxxing is really what I think needs to be removed. Many/most mods are moderating to control the discourse. THAT is expensive.




  • This kinda reminds me of when Beavis and Butthead first came on the air. Panned as the stupidest thing on TV.

    When it came back in the 2010s, it was exactly as stupid. However, relative to what ELSE was on TV? Suddenly it was relatively high brow. It was easily the smartest show on MTV. By a LOT.

    Putting super Gover in the first Iron Man? Nonsense. Putting him in whatever they do next? IMO it would generally raise the bar. No offense, MCU superfans.






  • Oof. You’re really getting shit on here, and without a lot of context or nuance.

    The phrase “Cold Approach” is what is rastling the jammies. It smells like “Pick up artist” bullshit. People can smell it from a mile away, and it reeks. No advice could solve that, as long as that’s your mentality.

    If you can really internalize that women aren’t objects (most men fail this. Most men who think they don’t still do) then no question about doing anything to a woman is even internally conceptualized as being to a woman, it’s just to a person.

    The right question is “how can I start a conversation with someone I don’t know?”

    But since you’ve already tipped your hand that your goals are romantic initiation… Reset those goals.