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Cake day: June 25th, 2023

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  • Hello fellow CAD friend!

    I don’t know exactly which program you’re using, but a lot of the ones which are Linux-unfriendly sadly won’t even work on a VM. You will have to have an entire dual boot configuration for them. The good news is that if you’re still on a tight budget, decent 7200 RPM, 1TB hard drives can be had for around $40, sometimes less.

    Minecraft is a whole different beast, and honestly it’s harder on my system than some CAD work… but can still be managed.


  • Be fair and equitable. There are times when strictness benefits a community, and there are times where laissez fair, laid-back moderation benefits a community. But nothing hollows out a community like moderators being unreliable or unfair.

    If you’ve got a “don’t be a dick” rule and someone is making a point you agree with but being a dick about it, you still have to step in. If you’re having a bad evening, don’t let yourself be extra hard on people because you’re angry or rushed. Etc.


  • Not Republican myself, but work with a lot of them. I’m seeing a few different camps right now. I can’t really speak for exactly how many fall into each, but can only give estimates based on my subjective experiences:

    • The “Leopard-Facers”: The ones who’ve suddenly woken up to the fact they elected a moron and a bully. These tend to be foreign policy hawks, and may have only voted for Trump reluctantly. Probably the smallest group.

    • The pure Trumpists: A mix of people who thought the US should be isolationist anyhow, just don’t like Zelensky in particular, or just are too invested in the vision of messiah-Trump. Obviously they’re thrilled. Very vocal, but I think also somewhat fewer. Maybe I just hope they’re fewer.

    • The cognitive dissonancers: Probably the greatest number. There’s a lot of different views under this umbrella. Some of them were buying into the idea “he’s just blustering for a better deal”; some thought the message was on-point but the display was inappropriate; some actually support Ukraine but can’t bring themselves express any actual opposition to this shitshow. Broadly speaking, they’re all squirming - struggling to reconcile the appeal they feel for his persona or other actions he’s taken, with their opposition to his foreign policy and this in particular. Yet not able to accept reality like the Leopard-Facers.







  • Echoing this. Even as someone who does read sci-fi, I think leaving it open ended is better. Hobbies is a good angle; it could also be “What show, book, or film did you enjoy recently?” then follow it up with “Why?” and work from there.

    What this shows:

    • They live a balanced-enough life that they have time to do relaxing stuff, aren’t money-focused tryhards like OP is trying to weed out.
    • Allows them to demonstrate explaining a topic unfamiliar to the interviewer.
    • Shows how they respond to unexpected questions outside the normal, practiced interview set.
    • Follow up questions can still weed out people who are viewing it “just because”, they heard it was popular, or whatever.



  • Disclaimer: I always viewed limited subreddits that fed my interests, and my Home feed. I never looked at All, because it never seemed to have things I’m interested in. That probably influences how I perceived Reddit.

    Reddit:

    • Way more niche topics. It was quite possible to find people who shared the same narrow interests as you. On Lemmy, having conversations about these things is hard.
    • Towards the end, there was a much greater tendency for top comments to be a joke/quip/insider joke as opposed to actual thoughtful discussion.
    • It felt like there was a much greater tolerance of nuance and complexity, though this was also showing cracks towards the end.

    Lemmy:

    • Politics definitely swing a bit more towards the left. In some cases this means “people just talk about corporations doing bad stuff more”, and in some cases it can mean some pretty out-there positions, like people fanboying for China or terrorists.
    • It’s much, much harder for me to find activity on topics I’m interested in. If you’re outside of Lemmy’s handful of interests, not just finding but even building topical discussion feels like a struggle.
    • Not everyone, but I do feel like I come across more people here who feel… allergic to nuance. Frankly, I think this might be less of a Reddit-vs-Lemmy thing and more of how just social media in general is shifting these days.