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Cake day: August 23rd, 2023

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  • Simply being family doesn’t mean you get to remain in my life. Cut off anyone who is toxic or otherwise not good for your life and health. This includes parents.

    After a decade it is still surprising to me how many people seem appalled by my no contact situation. I’m sorry, but I’ve wasted enough of my life on them and wishing for a fantasy dynamic that will never exist.

    “But they’re your blood…”

    So what.

    “But they’re your family…”

    No they’re not. I made new family.

    Some people have really judged me for this decision. I judge others as they complain about their toxic families they never do anything about.