Actually deltachat as a federated chatclient feels nearly as easy as signal. Just login to mail account, done. Just one setting right now really annoys me: You see all the mails in the inbox. I don’t know why that is not turned off as default.
You are perfectly making my point: when you write “people who,…” you in that case are actually adressing OP and using the typical “pick me” mechanism to dodge addressing OP directly. (Because he didn’t say what you laid in his mouth (but you didn’t because you are talking about people)) What i wish: By highering yourself let’s not lower others but convince with our arguments.
With “people who…” you are creating groups that most of the times aren’t as homogeneous as we think.
people who cry ‘misogyny’
Who are you talking about and how do you know how “they” react to that argument?
People who cry about
people who cry ‘misogyny’
usually don’t write arguments that people talking about misogyny don’t agree to. But what they do, is being a special snowflake “I am not a feminist because they…”. That is a way of downtalking the feminist movement.
“We cannot all succeed when half of us are held back.” -Malala Yousafzai
This is what federation actually is. Admins investing their free time to make people happy instead of money driven moderation which is not able to stop e.g. human trafficking.
Thanks for your work @rimu@piefed.social !