

My experience has been similar to OPs so I’m not sure it’s that dated? My first brother-in-law (now divorced, lol wonder why) would literally say he was “babysitting” anytime he was solo with his own kids.
The hetero stereotypes are stereotypes for a reason. I think it’s great that families are way more diverse in how they divide roles now than they used to be, but to pretend like these older stereotypes don’t legitimately exist is just disingenuous isn’t it?

Doing it for regular people is one thing but when you say “managed” I assume you mean for businesses? That seems risky but I really don’t know much about it. Companies have more litigation money/resources than every-day folks and may be more apt to try and hold you liable for any security breaches, whether they were your fault or not. At least, that would be my fear.