You’re far from the only kid to learn that lesson the hard way. Not that that makes it better but at least you have company

The person you’re taking to online has a vested interest in defending the position they put forth. Someone reading your response who initially agrees with the person you’re talking to does not have a defensive attitude to the same degree. Your arguments will be much more successful with the observer than with the other participant. You will probably never know if you had an impact on the observer. That’s what you should be aiming for though.

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Real OG’s let their brains do the highlighting, like God intended