I would bet that a lot of the folks who think they’re emotionally prepared aren’t. That is absolutely not a criticism of anyone. Death is so final and such an enormous concept that a lot of people just can’t comprehend it until death is staring them in the face.
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It seems like every time someone mentions Lemmy apps, someone says that one app is better for one thing but another app is better for something else. Plus, if the unpaid, overworked dev pulls a disappearing act, what used to be a great app becomes outdated garbage. Screw that.
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Ask Lemmy@lemmy.world•What are some sexist stereotypes that need to just stop?
35·20 days agoThe timing of this post is ideal.
I’m a guy. Yesterday, a coworker (a woman) told me about a male customer who was shopping before my shift started. She tried to help him, but he said “can I get a man to help me?” Ugh.
Amusingly, only her and two other women were working at that moment. She said “I’m the best you’re gonna get. There’s only two other people on duty right now, and they’re both women with less experience than me.” She wasn’t bragging, either. She’s always the one I go to when I have questions.
I’m glad I wasn’t there. I wouldn’t have wanted to deal with that caveman.
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Ask Lemmy@lemmy.world•Have you ever met a truly evil person? What happened?
4·2 months agoIt took me WAY too long to realize how bad the most evil person I know is. To him, though, it’s not evil. As far as he’s concerned, everything he does is fair, reasonable, and justified.
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Ask Lemmy@lemmy.world•Why do you need, want and/or have a gun/guns?
16·2 months agoGood for you. Laws are nice, but sometimes firepower is the best option for securing your rights - especially if you live in a country where DEI is sneered at.
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Ask Lemmy@lemmy.world•Who are some widely loved fictional characters that would be hated if they were real?
19·2 months agolol now THAT’S a brainteaser
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Ask Lemmy@lemmy.world•Who are some widely loved fictional characters that would be hated if they were real?
351·2 months agoWilly Wonka may not be hated, but he would definitely be vilified. There is no way a candy maker who refused to allow inspectors into his factory would be allowed to sell candy to the general public.
Plus, under the current administration, ICE would break in and forcibly deport (kidnap) all the Ommpa Loompas.
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Ask Lemmy@lemmy.world•What old movies hold up because of a lack of special effects or because clever use of effects?
4·2 months agoTotally understandable, even to someone who counts this film as a favorite. It is very slow moving.
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Ask Lemmy@lemmy.world•What old movies hold up because of a lack of special effects or because clever use of effects?
9·2 months agoShe’s walking funny on purpose. Those are meant to be some kind of velcro or magnetic slippers she’s wearing. She’s walking carefully because she doesn’t want to go drifting around in microgravity while carrying a tray of food.
That’s my interpretation, anyway.
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Ask Lemmy@lemmy.world•What old movies hold up because of a lack of special effects or because clever use of effects?
6·2 months agoThis film is my go-to whenever anyone mentions visual effects. If I were a director, this would be my gold standard for absolutely timeless effects.
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Ask Lemmy@lemmy.world•If your lifes goal was to make life better for as many people as possible how would you go about achieving it, assuming you could get start-up capital for your project?
3·2 months agoI’d probably have to resort to fraud. I’d just say I needed seed money for some AI bullshit, and BAM, I’d be swimming in cash overnight.
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Ask Lemmy@lemmy.world•Is there a right way to tell a woman she intimidates you sexually?
20·2 months agoThank you for your valuable perspective. I was just thinking that I’d take it as a compliment, but then, I’m a guy.
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Ask Lemmy@lemmy.world•What fictional character do you wish was real?
421·2 months agoSuperman.
Yeah, that’s an obvious choice, but I like his character more than his superpowers. He’s civil and polite to various world governments, but ultimately, there’s no stopping him from doing the right thing.
If he’s too powerful and that’s a negative to you, substitute Captain America. The same reasoning applies.
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Ask Lemmy@lemmy.world•What the most memorable moment from any video game?
4·2 months agoNeither am I. It seems unique because it’s actually become a tiny part of pop culture, which, to me, is what fits the definition of “memorable”. Nobody cares about some old guy in a cave distributing wooden swords.
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Ask Lemmy@lemmy.world•What the most memorable moment from any video game?
32·2 months ago“It’s dangerous to go alone. Take this.”
I bet there are people out there who hate video games but recognize this line.
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Ask Lemmy@lemmy.world•Have you seen progressive people be discriminatory either intentionally or unintentionally and if so in what way?
5·3 months agolol they were definitely invested in the topic. They were shouting and occasionally slamming things around.
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Ask Lemmy@lemmy.world•Have you seen progressive people be discriminatory either intentionally or unintentionally and if so in what way?
102·3 months agoI’ll use myself as an example.
There were some guys having an argument in another room, and it got increasingly intense. They were speaking some kind of Arabic. I thought they were genuinely mad at each other, but then one of them mentioned an athlete’s name and started listing what sounded like stats.
While telling this story at a party, I said something like “Arabic is a very angry-sounding language.” I noticed someone’s eyes get large, and I didn’t realize until then how racist I had unintentionally been.
Later, I thought more about it. Any language that you don’t understand sounds bad if people are having an emotionally charged conversation. It didn’t occur to me until then how easy it is to be thoughtless and racially insensitive.
I generally try not to be an asshole, but I messed up big time. I have no idea who he was, but I’ll always be grateful to the guy whose eyes got big. He gave me a much-needed reality check.
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Ask Lemmy@lemmy.world•An orange cat crossed my path, what divine portent have I received?
4·3 months agoA craving for an orange creamsicle (go with it and satisfy that craving - creamsicles are delicious)
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Ask Lemmy@lemmy.world•What's the first thing you'd do with a Star Trek holodeck?
9·3 months agoLock the door from the inside

Not existing anymore. Lots of people fear that.
Logically, I think you’re right, but I don’t know how I’d react emotionally if I end up in a situation where I have time to realize I’m about to die.