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Cake day: June 17th, 2023

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  • I don’t know if this counts, but when I was in grad school I had a Tinder date set up at a local pub. I got food poisoning the night before. The “fireworks” ended around 1-2 am and I felt confident enough to go to sleep a couple hours later.

    By the time I woke up the next morning, I felt that I could at least meet up for a couple of beers and chat. Plus, I figured telling her I got food poisoning would sound like an excuse to weasel out of the date.

    I ended up sitting outside the pub to meet up for a half hour. She never showed up, and I finally gave up asking if she’d show up a couple of times.



  • I don’t want to have to code anything.

    You don’t have to code anything. You just look through the game system browser, pick what you want, and after a few seconds it’s installed.

    We don’t need automation. I want simplicity.

    Then screenshare over Discord while drawing things in MS Paint. It’s simple and it’s not automated, just like you asked





  • I’m going to go a different route with advice.

    Once this all gets worked out, it might be worth considering a new rule with gifts: don’t gift things, gift experiences. Or alternatively, don’t gift permanent things, gift consumables.

    If you gift someone a tool, appliance, dress, etc. then they will need to find space to store it, even if they don’t like it. But if you get them a bottle of wine, or a dinner, or a trip to the Bahamas, then if they don’t like it it won’t be there forever and they’ll likely have a nice story.

    But that might not work with your relationship and I have no way of knowing. Just pitching the idea in case it’s a good fit for you






  • I think it’s more of an extension of the teenager fetish. School uniforms are something only school-aged children and teens wear regularly, so it’s become a trait associated with them.

    There’s also some scenarios that are less problematic (at least imo). Some people have a general uniform fetish (cops, nurses, etc). And sometimes couples that want to roleplay themselves as students.

    That being said, yeah there’s definitely some creepy fucks that can’t stop staring at teenagers. But I don’t think getting rid of student uniforms would put a noticable dent in it. That ship has already sailed. Keep in mind that french-style maid dresses aren’t really a thing anymire, and people still fetishize that. I doubt the school uniform fetish will go away even if every school in the world did away with them