Finding a village first implies you are not part of the village. Yah probably hate kids lol.

Childfree people aren’t selfish. People who hate children for existing are though. No one is forcing you to have kids. False victim hood bullshit.

I’m having a hard time understanding how self centered some people are. You can be uncomfortable with their kids and still enjoy their company.

I don’t know a single parent who “figures out their village” before having kids. If anything, having kids sheds the selfish dipshits like you.

Everyone can already access coding.

Oregon has this and it was amazing to take 12 weeks of paternity. We can also split it up, so I did part time for like 30 weeks. Kept us from needing to find childcare until she was almost 1.

Fuck your coworkers opinions. Even the 12 weeks I got is nothing compared to my Norwegian coworkers.