Do it in the changing room?

Oh, so just a normal card terminal or contactless terminal. Never hear “tap” in that context.

The planet won’t be destroyed though. Some areas will just become less habitable for humans. And that can be off-set with money (for example by paying for air conditioning). So your premise is faulty.

What’s a tap card terminal?

I tried that once but the photographs tasted aweful.

Don’t overthink, just go with you first gut instinct.

But you could only do that on the instance level, so people could just switch or setup their own instance that uses a different frontend. There is no way to force a specific UI on all of lemmy.

Cocaine.

I don’t see how one more shitty frontend for lemmy would ruin anything. Just add it to the pile.

There’s also a lot of decent people over here.

Exactly, I’m also just hanging around the nazi bar for the free buffet!

Nope. Easiest solution would be to move your account to an instance that doesn’t federate with lemmy.ml in the first place.

Obviously depends on the country, but in most develop countries the law is reasonable enough that it’s a useful shorthand for what is ok in day-to-day situations.

As long as it’s done responsibly and legally I have no issues with it.

Nothing, that way I can listen to my own stuff while I wait.

You don’t.

No, it’s not anything like that. My point was exactly the opposite: If you’re just a virgin that can’t get laid but you deal with it like a normal human being, you’re not an incel. Just a virgin and there is nothing wrong with that.

It’s would be more like calling every one has every played a game a gamer. Technically true, but utterly useless as term.

If you only want to use the word in the narrow literal sense, fine.

I don’t think that’s very useful. We don’t really need a special word for a virgin that can’t get laid. But we do need one that describes when people start blaming all women and form a misogynistic mindset around it. That’s how I choose to understand and use the term.

Can you be more specific about which part you think is wrong?

An incel (/ˈɪnsɛl/ ⓘ IN-sel; an abbreviation of “involuntary celibate”[1] or “involuntarily celibate”[2]), is a member of an online subculture of mostly heterosexual men […]

Sounds like a community to me.

Stopping AI from doing all the thinking for us.