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  • Spot on. We all have our own demons. It’s up to us to overcome them and make a life for ourselves. Life is not fair, some get it better, so e have it worse, but it’s for each of us to conquer ourselves

    Life is learning that no one looks out for you, no one is going to swoop in and make it easy. Nobody wants to go to work, but we all do anyway. I’d love to take a year off, but then I’d probably go homeless, so I don’t. I can wish it all I want, but it isn’t going to happen.

    So, I could be resentful that others may have it easier, or I can enjoy my days off how I want and put in my time as I go. C’est la vie.




  • I am the exact same way. Good on you for acknowledging it and recognizing it. I love romcoms, Jane Austen movies are some of my favorites, and ffs I literally made and mod the Taylor Swift community here. I’m very straight, but also in touch with my own emotions. All of masculinity says that I would never find a woman and that I’m doing everything wrong.

    Except I’ve been married and ina committed relationship for well over a decade now. My wife loves that I’m open with who I am. (I took her to the Eras tour!).

    Toxic males are sexist in many ways, but one is that they think of women as single thinking people. That women want hot guys with fast cars, and that you’ll never get one without. That’s like saying that all men like playing dnd, or all men want to drive a big truck. It’s asinine. There are over 4 billion women on this planet, and a good many of them do not care what kind of truck you have. In fact, most of them would think you wasted your money on it.









  • 13 is too young for an unrestricted smartphone for sure. If you do, I would lock it down hard for another couple of years. No spying, they deserve privacy, but you should know who they’re talking to (just not what they’re saying). But the internet is much much too broad of a place to just dump a 13 year old into. (Just look at us cretins here. You just wait, someday someone will offer your child linux and he better be ready to handle it).

    Joking aside, the other thing is if they want a phone badly maybe it’s a good time to teach the lesson on finance too. Maybe you offer to go in halfway with them, and they can do a paper route or something. At 15-16 then they’ll start being annoyed at the restrictions on the phone, and that’s their opportunity to buy one themselves.



  • God, as a true scrummaster - one who believes in actual scrum - where the devs make the rules - not management… this hurts. This hurts so goddamn much.

    • 4 hour planning? PMs shit the bed.
    • Story points = hours? Micromanagement
    • Estimate with that much accuracy? Micromanagement who are also terrible with managing their own schedules.
    • It’s a simple task. - How would any business person know how long or expensive a dev task is.

    And on and on, and of course you all know this. The term “Agile” has been so bastardized from it’s conception by management who think it’s a micromanagement tool. It’s quite literally the opposite. It’s mean to put the power in the hands of the developers - so they can be efficient and keep management out of their way. Management just couldn’t handle handing over a tiny bit of power though. Have to break the fundamental pillars of agile, like dictating what a point is, or how long things should take. Ugh.