You are quite presumptuous

Thank god for that

Ew gross, no Stella for me. Only the most alcoholic tripels for me.

That, plus this guy doesn’t care about you. He probably only wants a side piece to assuage his own unhappiness, and if you’re OK with hurting a non-consenting third party (his family) for someone that doesn’t care about you, then you need to look harder at your own values.

That’s what you get for drinking jupiler

I, like you, will be migrating from Windows to ProxMox soon. Can you give a link to the guide you mentioned?