Met online through a hobby-oriented platform (not social media, not dating sites). Neither of us where actively looking for a partner at that time, so there was no pressure to perform, no expectations, everything just flowed (and if it hadn’t, that would’ve been OK too, at least at that point hehe). It took a bit over a year of one thing leading to another.

I’ve read some advice here that sort of matches that pattern, and by personal experience I’d say it works.

Thank you, this truly means a lot.

I usually feel like I have nothing useful to contribute, that my tales are uninteresting and unoriginal, and that no none cares what I think. I start a comment and delete before sending bc… what’s the point?

Considering my bad luck, from very, very old age.