It’s perfectly fine to not like it and as long as you don’t force your view on your daughter, you are not a bad person.
But you sure as hell are a bad person if you don’t accept your daughters stance. Because as long as it is known to and accepted by all participants, it’s nobodies business but theirs. Nobody gets hurt by it? Nobody should interfere.
Exactly, I’m of the same opinion.
If their seniority is worth anything, they will also have merit to prove it. And too often I experienced they reached a position not because but rather despite their own lacking merit.