You have a bunch of thick, sticky, salty stuff in the back of your throat and your choices are to swallow or spit.

  • HubertManne@piefed.socialOP
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    14 hours ago

    yeah. I tend to not be great at keeping it straight and the context lead me to think you were asking the opposite. This is kinda dumb as im not attracted to many woman to begin with. Being a woman is kinda the basic requirement not the end result. So you really can’t get an with x you will always have y. You can’t logic your way around these things. they just are.

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      14 hours ago

      I am asking you if it is possible for you to be attracted to a trans man, who has (and was born with) a vagina, but presents as a man. I’m trying (and apparently failing) to get you to see that your attraction to someone has more to do with their identity and presentation than their genitals. You may not want to sleep with someone who has a penis, but that doesn’t mean you can’t be attracted to them, and being attracted to someone who has a penis, but identifies and presents as female, doesn’t make you gay.

      Does that make sense?

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        14 hours ago

        I think your getting to pedantic. Your asking about some hypothetical and its like. So far in my 50 plus years I have not been attracted to a man and have not been particularly attracted to most women I pass. I mean I don’t go woa every time I pass a woman and sport a boner. That being said I can have women showing a lot of cleavage and it becomes an act of will to not stare at it. I do go woa at the sight of some women if they are hot in my perspective. What is hot. hard to say. I can say something about boobs and ass but you know sometimes it might be the circadian rhythms. I have mistaken men for women and I have been mistaken for a woman. Generally its the distance thing. Like briefly thinking a mannequin is a real person. I honestly don’t care that much if I am gay or straight but I am what I am. I mean gay is always going to be wierd to me as is trans and whatnot but I assume straight is kinda wierd for them. So anything is theoretically possible. Maybe I will go gay. Thing is in my experience im the way I am.