Like everything in life, it’s about moderation

As one of these “men’s” I can confirm

As a cus straight guy myself I’m not sure fully understand the question but here goes my best interpretation,

I do not recommend this but the only thing I could think of is not displaying any affection to your parter, but if someone said I couldn’t hold my girlfriend’s Hand in public id be pretty pissed. So just be yourself OP

In my experience I’ve never noticed and even if i did I don’t care, they’re just doing their thing. The only time I’ve noticed some ‘act gay’ is that Hollywood over the top stereotype flamboyant kind, and whenever I see those people I wish I had that energy, just living you absolute best life

Kinda got a little off track there but my point is unless your in physical danger (I hope your not) just be yourself and what you think is right