Be it a personality quirk, something they’re wearing, or just the way they look. What makes them instantly hot?

  • ICCrawler@lemmy.world
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    11 months ago

    Unfortunately, I seem to favor the neurotic. It’s not a thing I can control. I know damn well not to act on it, but attraction/infatuation can be a bastard sometimes. On the flip side, on the not-instant side of things, plenty of togetherness and shows of affection and tenderness can also call forth attraction over time.

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      11 months ago

      In my experience the greater the emotional challenges the person has to face, the more amazing they are at sex

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          11 months ago

          Ouch!

          okay that’s … abusive (on her part)

          and definitely never bed an abuser.

          I guess the trick is finding the right kind and level of emotional issues