For me it’s time signatures in music. I grew up playing instruments, played in several orchestras, etc. But no matter how many times someone tries to explain time signatures to me, it makes no sense. I don’t understand why people place such importance on it. To me, notes have a pitch and a duration, maybe some dynamics. That’s it. I don’t understand why people try to needlessly complicate it. It doesn’t give you anything.
My wife will hear a song and go “Oh neat, it’s in 5/8.” And I’m like “How tf do you know that, and why does it matter?”
This is so weird to me. I Don’t bullshit people or manipulate them. It would be exhausting, but I seem to make friends and acquaintances easily enough.
I live in a city full of tech bros and biotech bimbos. this is all they know from birth to grave.
they find the concept of someone being genuine and non-bullshitty very upsetting and weird. but if you talk to them in bullshit corpo self-branding speak, they are totally into you.
like I’ve had ‘concerned friends’ lecture me on how to bullshittify the way I talk so it’s more socially acceptable. like using ‘pivot’ and ‘synergize’ when talking about myself, and of course constantly referencing my anxiety about my lack of ‘productivity’. or to constantly reference ‘how expensive’ things in casual conservation to let everyone know I’m wealthy and successful… because if you aren’t wealthy what is the point of even being alive?
also if you have a hobby, you can only talk about it reference to how it builds your career or it’s your side hustle.