If I was told that I’d come back to earth to be reincarnated as another human being with choices. I would like the following;
To be a woman. To be non-binary, still. To still remain a ‘gray world resident’. To retain my ability to not cave to FOMO and be resourceful. There’s a hundred of other things but in terms of core ones, those are the few.
Hundreds of things just like you, but mainly all the wisdom, especially that which came with pain and hatred, so that I don’t make the same interpersonal mistakes again. Too bad there isn’t a “what to discard” choice, because getting rid of being assigned male at birth would be huge.