If I was told that I’d come back to earth to be reincarnated as another human being with choices. I would like the following;
To be a woman. To be non-binary, still. To still remain a ‘gray world resident’. To retain my ability to not cave to FOMO and be resourceful. There’s a hundred of other things but in terms of core ones, those are the few.
I would politely decline.
Unless I’m being born into a world where I don’t have to feasibly spend half my life working (at best), I’m not interested. I would time travel back and prevent my own birth if I could, and my life kicks ass.