toomanypancakes@crazypeople.online to Ask Lemmy@lemmy.worldEnglish · 1 day agoWhat's something you've done that improved your quality of life?message-squaremessage-square90linkfedilinkarrow-up1103arrow-down10
arrow-up1103arrow-down1message-squareWhat's something you've done that improved your quality of life?toomanypancakes@crazypeople.online to Ask Lemmy@lemmy.worldEnglish · 1 day agomessage-square90linkfedilink
minus-squareSibbo@sopuli.xyzlinkfedilinkarrow-up14arrow-down6·20 hours agoMarrying and having kids. Sure the baby year fucks you up. But once they can go to daycare, life starts to normalise again. Turns out, caring for other people gives you purpose and makes you happy.
minus-squareroofuskit@lemmy.worldlinkfedilinkEnglisharrow-up9·13 hours agoI love this for you, and I have a similar experience. Please people do not get married and have kids because you think it will make you happier. A lot of childhoods have been ruined this way.
Marrying and having kids.
Sure the baby year fucks you up. But once they can go to daycare, life starts to normalise again.
Turns out, caring for other people gives you purpose and makes you happy.
I love this for you, and I have a similar experience. Please people do not get married and have kids because you think it will make you happier. A lot of childhoods have been ruined this way.