In the last week I have seen solar punk go down and aussie.zone owner talk about stepping away.
I’ve not seen two places down at once that has made it to my feed in the last 3 years.
Is the self hosting aspect of lemmy a detriment to the entire environment? Admins getting burnt out or the costs becoming too high is absolutely an issue.
I know this is kind of rambling but what would happen to Lemmy if the major hosters all went down, and we all spun up our own personal services?


I really can’t blame people for getting burned out–hardware costs are expensive as fuck right now, software exploits are more urgent than ever, the entire Internet is endless sea of bots, and there is no mechanism in place to offset any of the associated costs or work to the community. As things are right now, a small minority of fediverse users are shouldering all of the burden of various costs so that the rest of us can use this infrastructure for free.
From a money and time standpoint, it seems mostly unsustainable, and it’s not something that can go on forever or scale up and up.
I think there are ways to make it more sustainable, like quotas, subscriptions and ads… But they are pretty unpopular.
Unlike corporate social media, we can’t rely on leveraging other people’s money in the form of VC or stocks, and so we are left mainly with voluntary donations.
But in the end, the health of the fediverse is arguably in the breadth and diversity of its servers. While it’s good to have some newbie friendly flagship servers, it’s probably better if everybody isn’t concentrated on the same few mega servers.
And it’s a shame when a server goes down because the person running it burns out or can’t afford it. But this usually ends up being a social problem moreso than a technical one. And social problems can be mitigated (or avoided) by improving communicating and making sure that we aren’t putting all of the load on any one person. There are cultural changes that we can make to improve the health of specific communities and instances.
I’m running both Retrolemmy and Retrofed because I like doing it. I made the community I would like to see. We are niche and small, but like our little place. I don’t know how it would be to host a big instance, but I like what we have here. I pay it out of pocket, and am happy to do so.
If you want, most instances accept donations of some kind. This can help for some Admins.