whats your thought on open relationship? if both living in different states

  • HeroCool@nord.pub
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    11 hours ago

    i try not too much concern myself with other peoples relationships

      • YappyMonotheist@lemmy.world
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        2 hours ago

        I’m with you on this one, Chippy. But you kinda have to let people be useless, as long as they’re harmless at least. We just gotta tolerate it (even if the obvious "virtue signalling " is annoying) and move on without losing our temper. 🥲

        • Return_of_Chippy@lemmy.world
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          11 hours ago

          It’s a non answer that just serves to pat themselves on the back for being “good”. The question is also about the concept of open relationships. You can talk about that concept without viewing it through the lense of other people’s business. It’s a frustrating thing I see regularly in comments on posts like this. The idea you have to comment just to let everyone know you don’t have an opinion because you’re too moral.

          • [deleted]@piefed.world
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            11 hours ago

            Did you just comment to whine about someone else’s comment to show off how much better you are by (incorrectly) saying their view wasn’t meaningful enough?

            • strakitar@lemmy.world
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              11 hours ago

              No, no OP has a point. That poster’s comment was inane, and you are only looking stupid by defending that as a good post

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              10 hours ago

              Their view added nothing. It served only to show that they don’t have an opinion. So again, why comment if you’re not willing to have an opinion. Its just moral posturing, its annoying and cringy.

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                  7 hours ago

                  I would place them in the same category as monogamous heterosexual relationships. I think creating a delineation between heterosexual relationships and homosexual ones like your doing is a strange way to make a point. I also lived with a lesbian couple for a few years when I was younger. In my personal anecdotal experience, I like hanging out with lesbian couples more than gay male couples, but about as much as heterosexual couples. Granted, that’s my personal lived experience. I wouldn’t assume I’d get along better with either on average though. Mostly just the people I knew. Weird to create that divide considering an open relationship is in no way equivalent to a gay one. In fact, some open relationships are gay.