• Victor@lemmy.world
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      1 day ago

      I really want to try it but there’s no way in my lifetime that it will happen for me.

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          24 hours ago

          I’m in a committed lifelong relationship that I intend to be faithful in, and I don’t think she wants to do such activities. I’m trying my best to make it happen as much as possible between just the two of us lol. It’s not easy with school and work and two kids.

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            23 hours ago

            Ah that’s totally fair lol, I was just checking in case it was something like not feeling like you could fit into those scenes

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              14 hours ago

              Ah right. I wouldn’t even know how to find “that scene”. How do you even find anyone that wants to hook up in a group sex situation? Where do you go from square one?

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                13 hours ago

                unfortunately so.

                there are some clubs that require routine testing, but even that isn’t 100%. at best you’ll know if you’ve been exposed but zero preventative protection unless you use condoms but that still doesn’t stop things like lice or herpes.

                at most clubs it’s possible to be just a voyer, but it’s just not the same as active participation.

                so, I abstain. begrudgingly, but disease free.

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                  10 hours ago

                  There are clubs? Like business establishments where you gather to have orgies? Is that legal? lol

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                    4 hours ago

                    in my area yes, very much so.

                    they have events and sometimes they even have special guests that show up, onlyfans models, porn stars, etc.

                    actually the most popular club is run by several successful OF models.