For masculine identifying folks, what were the things you did (or had happen to you) that you feel helped you transition into adulthood and find fulfilling community?
Statistics suggest that a large number of men feel isolated, unvalued by society, and dysfunctional, but it’s not 100%.
For me it was separating those two things. Person is the type, man is subtype. Nothing in the subtype will change the type but any change in the type will impact the subtype. Find out what makes you a happy person and you’ll by default be a happy man.