Yep, do open poly if you want, but this arrangement here just seems like “I want permission to cheat” more than “I want an open relationship”. Sounds like they found someone else and don’t have the stones to break up.
Yeah but anyone who sees sex in an open relationship as cheating, probably was never actually in an open relationship.
Its like saying going outside is just permission to leave the windows open - like there are no windows outside, and if you’re finding walls windows supported by ceilings, there’s a good chance youre still inside.
Yep, do open poly if you want, but this arrangement here just seems like “I want permission to cheat” more than “I want an open relationship”. Sounds like they found someone else and don’t have the stones to break up.
Yeah but anyone who sees sex in an open relationship as cheating, probably was never actually in an open relationship.
Its like saying going outside is just permission to leave the windows open - like there are no windows outside, and if you’re finding walls windows supported by ceilings, there’s a good chance youre still inside.