I have. And I think folks should be able to talk about it without being stigmatized or harassed for sharing their experiences.

  • Starya67@lemmy.world
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    I’m a woman.

    I was SA-ed when I was 7. A teacher saved me, it would have been more than SA if he hadn’t. My mother said “I know, don’t mention it again” when I told her.

    I’ve been coerced into sex by both my (ex) husband and boyfriends multiple times because I thought women had a duty to say yes when they wanted sex. I was forced to have anal sex without lube a bunch of times.

    I never want to have sex with a guy again.

    • Boo! Haunted House!@lemmy.world
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      First off, may I just say fuck your mother for dismissing such an awful thing that happened to you. Are you low/no-contact with her?

      Second, I’m sorry that experience was the beginning of so many others. I don’t know your orientation or preferences, but I at least hope you can find a stable relationship with someone who respects you more than the men you’ve had in your life so far.