I want to just delete my Discord, FB, Reddit, Second Life and other social sites so I can just be focused on myself. But I can’t because the guilt of seemingly deserting those I have left, will be hard to deal with.
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Move out of state (or out of the country)
Own my own home.
Drop out of society more or less completely. People stress me out.
im long term unemployed so I would like to be getting a regular paycheck. from there buy a lot of stuff I can’t right now although with inflation im not sure if I could with most of it even if I did start getting income. honestly linkedin and facebook are the only normal social media I have do to looking for work and to stay in touch with folks. I go on linkedin everyday currently (ugh) but not to post or read posts. I totally don’t get the idea of posting on linkedin. then try to hit up facebook at least once a week in case someone is looking for me.
Get my health back so I can do everything I thought was there forever.
stable family, have a better childhood, have confidence, believing I won’t kill myself, being proud of myself
Die
I have a hard time thinking of things I want to do but can’t. Maybe horny stuff? There are people I would sleep with if that didn’t have undesirable social consequences. Otherwise if I really want to do something, I do it.
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Two chicks at the same time
Stop “working” as in regular day job. There would be so many things I’d like to do and help other people - aside from that I am also medically severely disabled and it would be great to have the time to live better.
But no chance, gotta be “productive”. (even though not USA but at least I’m not broke because of the circumstances)
Transition, change my name, teach myself Blender so I can while away my 40’s making the animations I dreamed of since I was a teenager… Ironically all of this is impossible because I am too broke to get out from under the thumb of my dumbass Boomer parents
Overthrow the US Government. And Restore the Constitution.
Not be alive. I’m passively suicidal. I don’t have a plan. I’m not going to do anything. I very much know how screwed everyone would be if I wasn’t here. I make a lot of people’s lives very much better by my actions. I also know that I would miss out on a lot of fantastic experiences (I want to pet fluffy cows so much).
However, my life isn’t worth it for myself. I’m middle aged. On the whole, it’s been more negative than positive. Don’t get me wrong, there have been some amazing highlights. I have wonderful kids and some amazing memories with my spouse and moments in my childhood, but it’s all outweighed by the bad. The bad is cumulatively worse than the good, it’s net negative.
What’s a fluffy cow? Literally a cow that’s got fluffy fur?
Yes! Highland cattle! https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Highland_cattle
You’re a person who could really benefit be speaking to a therapist.
Jesus man, first of all, live, you can be happy, some of the time.
Keep in mind, throwing away your life in suicide is a selfish act, if one insists on ending it all though, why not take some ill intentioned people with you? Just a thought.
Jesus man, first of all, you might be an asshole
You waffle immediately from shaming someone for being mentally ill into advocating that they be violent.
We’d obviously all prefer that people aren’t suicidal, and yeah we want to help them. I know I want to live in a world where nobody feels they need to take their own life.
I don’t think suicide is automatically selfish though, you don’t know anything about this person’s life. Demanding that somebody continue an existence that they find miserable in order for you to not have your feelings hurt is pretty damn selfish though. Do you think that making somebody feel bad will somehow make them feel less bad?
Lol I took it as a joke.
First of all, yes, I am an asshole, that’s what I’m going for, so thanks.
Second, your arguments here expose you as not a part of the resistance, but a tool of the oligarchy, manipulating us into compliance, no?
Eat a bag of dicks. Can I still say that? Are you going to take offense and get me cancelled for that phrase? Only because you can’t if not.
Grow the fuck up bro, or quit manipulating us into being sheep led to the slaughter. I guess that makes you the judas goat.
If your revolution requires you to prey on the most vulnerable and have them throw away their lives in a bid to further your agenda, then I fail to see how that’s better than the status quo
Own a home, be in a long term relationship, have a career worth a shit.
I’m turning 40, “uneducated” because I never “found myself” and had to support myself right out of highschool. Single for almost a decade. Working a dead end factory job. It’s not happening. :/
I also went right to work after high school. Some of my jobs were dead-end as recently as 2020, but I found better work in which I can flourish. I’m also in a wonderful relationship and got married, in my 40s, to someone I met after a long time alone and a long-term abusive partner before that.
Things can get better.
(I’m a city-dweller who will probably never own a home, though. Fuck real estate prices, but at least my apartment isn’t bad at all.)
good news is plenty of people are educated and single and own homes… and feel the exact same way as you.
I meet them all the time.
I pretty much gave up on dating, “no one” seems to be able to find what they’re looking for and dating
parasitesapps have made the issue 1000000x worse… When your world of potential dates expands dramatically and they’re all a swipe away the dating pool becomes a buffet table and the perfect dish is just one more swipe away… And another swipe… And another swipe… Pass on all these people, the next will be the perfect one… And another swipe…the problem is people have impossible standards, not just for dating, but life in general.
and if you don’t live in that perpetually unhappy head space, they think you’re a loser.
